Ideal love is defined by two souls for eternity which means a love full of trust and understanding. An ideal love shows you that your partner is always there with you as a part of your soul even when he isn’t with you physically.
Relationships bring a sprawling mess of emotions, from fear to thrill to comfort. If you feel threatened by this fear, that is not healthy nor romantic, but fear can be encouraging, exciting, thrilling. Some fears can be balanced out.